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EMBARKING ON MARRIAGE CAN BE LONELY
The Flourish Journey
Embarking on the journey of marriage can feel lonely for women. Together, we'll grow as wives and wives-to-be, navigate life side by side, laugh together and ultimately, live in deeper intimacy as we walk through preparing for marriage. It's a safe place to have open, honest, and vulnerable conversations.
TIME & PEOPLE ARE TWO OF THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENTS OF LIFE
This is why making a decision to...
leave an “undesirable” place in your life to a more “desirable” place would mean putting in the right amount of time and being with the right people.
The Impact of the Flourish Journey is that you get to invest 90 days with the right coach and the right people who can share with you, bond with you, encourage you, and stick with you as you move from struggling in your marriage to overcoming in your marriage.
In this Group Coaching program, I include you among women on the same journey as you, maritally speaking. I give you instructions and I allow you share your struggles with me and with other wives who can relate. In this program, you will be filled with the belief, motivation, encouragement, and affirmation you need to efficiently nurture your marriage plant so that you can nurture it till it flourishes. In this community, we will intentionally dig deep into measurable practical life solutions you can immediately begin to adopt in your marriage.
I provide you with workbooks (roadmaps) and frameworks on the specific issues that you are struggling with and I will give you practical step-by-step solutions on how you can surmount those challenges that have caused you disappointment and pain. I will give you resources on self-love, self-awareness, self-worth, and self-discovery.
Through The Flourish Journey, you get to revive your spirit, redefine your worth, renew your mind, and reconnect with your purpose. I will also assign accountability partners who will commit to keeping you accountable, giving you constructive feedback, and supporting you as long as the journey lasts (and maybe even beyond).
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I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES...
I know how you feel
Right now you feel like your voice is not being heard in your marriage
You find yourself questioning your value. You feel like you are doing all of the work in your marriage.
You are struggling to find a confidant you can confide in without feeling ashamed and judge.
You are watering your marriage yet, you aren’t seeing anything grow.
ARE YOU READY FOR A BREAK?
Don’t worry you are not alone! This is the reality for many wives yet, it doesn’t have to be. There is a beautiful purpose in your marriage. Through the Flourish Journey Program I help you build the skills you need to advocate for yourself with your husband in a way that brings you closer together without bridging a divide.
TRANSFORM YOUR MARRIAGE WITH THE FLOURISH JOURNEY
Heal your Spirit & Restore your Mind
TOGETHER I HELP YOU...
REVIVE YOUR SPIRIT
REDEFINE YOUR WORTH
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RENEW YOUR MIND
RE-CONNECT WITH YOUR SPOUSE
LET'S DIG DEEPER
Overview of the Modules
Boundaries
Communication
Friendship & Trust
Conflict Resolution
Life Balance
Confidence
Money Management
Sexual Intimacy
Response
Spiritual Growth
What's Included:
Bi-weekly sessions for 90 mins.
The roadmap workbook
Access to the Flourish Wife Library and Downloadable Books
Monthly Q & A
One Complimentary one-on-one coaching call
Accountability Partner
Complementary discount for Retrea
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Do I need coaching or therapy?As a licensed Registered Nurse and a Certified Wife Coach with lots of experience in Mental Health, I understand the importance of professional counseling facilitated by a Licensed counselor, Psychologist, Doctor or therapist. There are wives/wives-to-be I have had to refer to access the aforementioned services because coaching is/was not appropriate for them. It is most important for you to decide to take the first step. You will be redirected as needed. Just take the first step, reach out to a Counselor, Therapist, Doctor, Psychologist, Coach, Neutral Friend, Partner, etc… Just reach out if you need help. I know God will redirect your path till you get to where you need to be/go
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What if I have been married for longer than 3 years?I tailor my coaching services to women in their initial stages of marriage so that I can help them navigate this major transition and also to ensure they have the tools to build a steady foundation. However, I also coach women who have been married for years. Some of these women are struggling because they do not have the appropriate tool to navigate the current state of their marriage. I can help by going back and digging through the foundation they have built. Together, we can discover the tools they need to flourish in their marriage. You can reach out as well.
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What if I live in a different time zone?I have had sessions with wives and wives-to-be in Tanzania, Australia, India, Ghana, Dubai, Cameroun, Canada, London, Mozambique, Kenya, Nigeria, etc… I understand the time difference between us can be hard to navigate. I also understand that some wives do not want to have the conversation when their spouse is in the house with them. I make provision to serve you. There are times you might need to wake up really early, stay up really late, talk while sitting in your car or hiding in your closet. We will make it work. We will work it out. Just let me know.
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How do I get started?My coaching services are mainly designed for wives (newly weds/wives in the initial stages of their marriage) and wives-to-be (those about to get into a relationship/those in a relationship/engaged) You will fill out the appropriate form based on your status. You will then be redirected to a link to schedule a time for us to talk based on your availability.
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As a wife-to-be, how is my program (what I will learn) different from what the wives learn?As a group, we will learn how to nurture the marriage plants with these fertilizing agents Sexual Intimacy Friendship and trust Communication Conflict Resolution (Anger) Money Management Spiritual intimacy Life balance Confidence Respect Boundaries To Prepare for Marriage, we will focus on all these in addition to the 10 “fertilizing agents” listed above Long Distance Marriage Impact of technology/social media on marriage/relationship How to deal with infidelity and nurture Trust Emotional Vulnerability Multicultural marriage Distance Relationships Temperament Effects of background on relationship/marriage
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How are the sessions held?The sessions are held virtually via Zoom. You will receive the link in your email.
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Do you have other resources I can start with?Do you have other resources I can start with? I have spent years putting resources together for wives in the initial stages of their marriage. The videos and daily tools posted on @oneyoungwife instagram page is a free resource for you. I would also recommend you spend time watching the recorded Instagram LIVE conversations I have had with others over the years. These sessions are filled with practical life solutions you can adopt starting now. The One Young Wife WhatsApp community is also an excellent resource. If you send a DM to the @oneyoungwife page, you can chat or speak with our In House counselor as well. You can also send an email to team@oneyoungwife.com someone will be there to help you navigate your journey.
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Can males attend these sessions?My services are intentionally designed for women.
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Regarding the 5 Sessions, how often is it held?I understand how hard it is to show up consistently as an employee, for your business, children, spouse, even for friends… I am a resource not another THING you have to STRESS OVER. So relax… During our first session, you will have the opportunity to decide how often you will like the sessions. You can divide it out over months or weeks. We can have the sessions every week for 5 weeks, every other week, every month or every other month.
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Can I purchase your services as a gift?Yes you can! Make sure you state the recipient's name while filling out the forms. You can also send an email to tomi@oneyoungwife.com or team@oneyoungwife.com