The Intimacy Flourish Scale

For your marriage/relationship to flourish, you need to know what your “marriage plant” is lacking. Use the “Fertilizing Agents Scale” to measure where you are at.

On a scale of 0 to 10, rate the level of each “fertilizing agent” in your marriage/relationship.

0 meaning “I absolutely lacking in my marriage/relationship”

10 meaning “I am flourishing in this area”

• Sexual Intimacy

• Friendship

• Communication

• Conflict Resolution (Anger)

• Trust

• Money Management

• Spiritual intimacy

• Life balance

• Confidence

• Respect

• Boundaries

Based on your result, which ones did you rate the lowest?

Now, pick out the lowest three score ratings because that is where you need to start!

Start there!

Those you have selected are the fertilizing agents you need to add to your relationship/marriage plant so that it can FLOURISH.

Imagine what your life would be like if you were flourishing in those areas you have identified.

Imagine the joy and peace you will nurture in your home and in other ramifications of your life!

Imagine being able to freely express your deepest and truest feelings without worrying about the consequences

Imagine knowing what to say, when to say and how to say it” while leaving the consequences to God.

You can get there!

Let me help you make your marriage work!

Reach out at tomi@oneyoungwife.com

@tomi_a_deflourish or @oneyoungwife

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